The Difference between the Love with support and the good treatment
Al-Wala’ (Allegiance and Support) is different from the good treatment, this is clearly explained in Allah’s Saying, -meaning- {Allah forbids you not, with regard to those who fight you not for (your) Faith nor drive you out of your homes, from dealing kindly and justly with them: for Allah loves those who are just}. This clarifies that Al-Wala (love and support), which is shown by love, support and respect is different from the good treatment and charity given to the relative disbelievers.
Allah (swt) said, -meaning- {And We have enjoined on man (To be good) to his parents: in travail upon travail did his mother bear him, and in years twain was his weaning: (hear the command), “Show gratitude to Me and to your parents: to Me is (your final) Goal. “But if they strive to make you join in worship with Me things of which you has no knowledge, obey them not; yet bear them company in this life with justice (And consideration), and follow the way of those who turn to Me (in love). In the End the return of you all is to Me, and I will tell you the truth (and meaning) of all that you did.”}
And He said, -meaning- {Worship Allah, and join not any partners with Him; and do good to parents, kinsfolk, orphans, those in need, neighbors who are near neighbors who are strangers, the companion by your side, the way farer (you meet) and what your right hands possess; for Allah loves not the arrogant, the vainglorious}.